JLPT N16 min readUpdated May 18, 2026Grammar pattern

思いをするomoi o suru“to think; to feel”

Use 思いをする when you want to express that you underwent a specific feeling or emotional state, not just a passing sensation. It frames the feeling as an experience you live through.

Meaning
to think; to feel
Pattern
思いをする
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N1

思い(おもい)をする means to think; to feel ~. It is a JLPT N1 Japanese grammar pattern used to express experiencing a particular feeling or state of mind, often one that is negative, strong, or emotionally charged.

This grammar point often appears in novels, essays, formal commentary, and JLPT N1 reading passages. If you want to express that you went through a certain emotional experience, 思い(おもい)をする is a useful pattern to learn because it adds natural precision to your Japanese.

What does 思いをする mean?

Use 思い(おもい)をする when you want to express that you underwent a specific feeling or emotional state, not just a passing sensation. It frames the feeling as an experience you live through.

Natural translations include:

  • to feel ~; to go through a ~ experience; to have a ~ time (of it)

How to form 思いをする

The core is 思い(おもい)(おもい) (feeling, thought) + をする. The word before 思い(おもい) describes the nature of the feeling. The adjective or noun that modifies 思い(おもい) can be an i-adjective, na-adjective, or noun + の.

つらい + 思い(おもい) + をする

You can also use a noun with の:

不思議(ふしぎ) + の + 思い(おもい)をする

Common adjectives used with 思い(おもい)をする include:

  • つらい(辛い(つらい)) — painful, tough
  • 恥ずかしい(はずかしい)(はずかしい) — embarrassing
  • うれしい(嬉しい(うれしい)) — happy
  • 悲しい(かなしい)(かなしい) — sad
  • 怖い(こわい)(こわい) — frightening
  • 奇妙(きみょう)な(きみょうな) — strange
  • 不快(ふかい)な(ふかいな) — unpleasant

When is 思いをする used?

Use 思い(おもい)をする in situations like:

  • describing a personal emotional experience, often negative or intense
  • recounting a past event with lingering emotional weight
  • expressing empathy or shared suffering in a narrative tone

Tone and register:

  • slightly formal to literary; common in written Japanese, personal essays, and reflective speech
  • frequently found in JLPT N1 reading comprehension and listening

思いをする example sentences

初めて(はじめて)一人(ひとり)で海外(かいがい)に行っ(いっ)たとき、心細い(こころぼそい)思(おも)いをした。
When I went abroad alone for the first time, I felt very anxious.
emotional past experience
彼(かれ)に誤解(ごかい)されて、とても辛(つら)い思い(おもい)をした。
I was misunderstood by him and went through a really painful experience.
negative relationships
大勢(おおぜい)の前(まえ)で転ん(ころん)で、恥(は)ずかしい思い(おもい)をした。
I tripped in front of a big crowd and felt terribly embarrassed.
embarrassment public
彼女(かのじょ)は奇妙(きみょう)な思い(おもい)をしながら、その話(はなし)を聞い(きい)ていた。
She listened to the story with a strange feeling.
mystery observation
長い間(ながいあいだ)、不(ふ)快(かい)な思い(おもい)をしなければならなかった。
For a long time, I had to put up with an unpleasant feeling.
endurance negative
こんなに嬉(うれ)しい思い(おもい)をしたのは久し(ひさし)ぶりだ。
It's been a long time since I felt this happy.
positive rare

After reading each sentence, ask what job 思い(おもい)をする is doing: it frames the emotion as an experience someone goes through, not just a momentary sensation.

Nuance of 思いをする

The key nuance is experiencing a feeling as a state that you live through, often with a heavy or lingering quality.

For example:

  • つらい思い(おもい)をする implies you endured the pain for a while, not just that something was painful.
  • Compared with plain adjectives like つらい, 思い(おもい)をする adds a layer of narrative distance and subjective immersion.

思いをする vs 感じる

Both 思い(おもい)をする and 感じる(かんじる) can express feeling something, but they are different.

思い(おもい)をする
experiencing an emotional state as a whole
Used when the speaker wants to convey that they went through a feeling, often negative or complex, as an episode in their life.
つらい思い(おもい)をした。
I went through a painful experience.
vs
感じる(かんじる)
direct sensation or perception
Used for immediate sensory input or a passing feeling, more neutral and less "lived through".
痛み(いたみ)を感じ(かんじ)た。
I felt a pain.

Common mistakes with 思いをする

❌ あの映画(えいが)は怖い(こわい)思い(おもい)をした。
The movie itself didn't experience the feeling; the speaker did.
✅ あの映画(えいが)を見(み)て、怖い(こわい)思い(おもい)をした。
❌ ちょっと熱い(あつい)思い(おもい)をした。
熱い(あつい) is not an emotion; 思い(おもい)をする requires an emotional or psychological state.
✅ ちょっと不快(ふかい)な思い(おもい)をした。
❌ 彼(かれ)は頭(あたま)がいい思い(おもい)をする。
"頭(あたま)がいい" is a description, not an emotional experience you undergo.
✅ 彼(かれ)はいつも賢い(かしこい)ふりをして、嫌(いや)な思い(おもい)をさせられる。

A helpful practice method is to write one sentence with 思い(おもい)をする, then rewrite it with 感じる(かんじる).

Is 思いをする on the JLPT?

N1

Yes. 思い(おもい)をする is commonly taught as JLPT N1 grammar.

That means learners should be able to:

  • recognize it in reading
  • understand its nuance in context
  • use it in simple original sentences

For test preparation, study the grammar point in full sentences. JLPT questions often test whether you understand the surrounding context, not just the dictionary meaning.

Practice questions for 思いをする

1 Describe a time you had a つらい思い(おもい) because of a misunderstanding. personal
2 Write a sentence where someone 恥ずかしい(はずかしい)思い(おもい)をした in a social setting. embarrassment
3 Create an example using 奇妙(きみょう)な思い(おもい) to convey an eerie atmosphere. mystery
4 Contrast 思い(おもい)をする and 感じる(かんじる) by writing the same event both ways. comparison

Learning path for 思いをする

1
First, make sure you can form 思い(おもい)をする correctly with i‑adjectives, na‑adjectives, and nouns+の.
2
Next, compare it with 感じる(かんじる). These patterns are close enough that choosing between them helps you understand the nuance.
3
Read a short personal essay or diary entry in Japanese and underline every emotional expression. Check if any could be rephrased as 思い(おもい)をする for a deeper narrative effect.
4
Finally, write a short paragraph about a difficult day, using 思い(おもい)をする at least twice. Then check whether replacing it with a plain adjective changes the story's emotional weight.
  • おりに — because it also sets a specific occasion where a feeling or experience occurs, often in formal narrative.
  • を前提(ぜんてい)として — because it frames an assumption that can lead to an emotional outcome, pairing naturally with 思い(おもい)をする when expectations clash.
  • およそ — because it introduces approximations, and overestimating can lead to つらい思い(おもい).
  • をよそに — because it contrasts a person’s emotional experience with an indifferent outside world, often producing 思い(おもい)をする moments.

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FAQ about 思いをする

What does 思いをする (omoi o suru) mean in Japanese?

思いをする (omoi o suru) means “to think; to feel”. It is JLPT N1 grammar. Use 思いをする when you want to express that you underwent a specific feeling or emotional state, not just a passing sensation. It frames the feeling as an experience you live through.

How do you form 思いをする (omoi o suru)?

The core is 思い(おもい) (feeling, thought) + をする. The word before 思い describes the nature of the feeling. The adjective or noun that modifies 思い can be an i-adjective, na-adjective, or noun + の.

What is the difference between 思いをする and 感じる?

思いをする: experiencing an emotional state as a whole. 感じる: direct sensation or perception.

What is an example sentence with 思いをする (omoi o suru)?

初めて一人で海外に行ったとき、心細い思いをした。 — When I went abroad alone for the first time, I felt very anxious.

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